Back in October of last year, I went out with this girl ( very beautiful...she is a 9 or 10). We used to work for the same company and I used to have a big crash on her. She had broken up with her husband for almost a year. Anyways we went on two dates and I ended up getting it in on the second date but she became flaky and played hard to get after that (3-4 times) . I stopped texting her but will text her once in a month to keep her on the radar. I am thinking of making contact again and trying to set up a date but knowing that she may flake. What's your experience/ideas on gaming girls that flake a lot
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to regain control of a girl that flakes
- Thread starter lastking
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm not saying it's the case here but when something similar happened to me it was because she had met someone else in the meantime and were going serious so there's nothing I could really do that wouldn't make me look needy
I just let her go and when I eventually run into her two years after that she was all huggy and receptive.
Hope it helps!
I just let her go and when I eventually run into her two years after that she was all huggy and receptive.
Hope it helps!
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My experience is that it's a waste to time. Either she's got low interest or she's banging a bunch of other guys. Spin more plates.lastking said:
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Complete waste of time, man. Pursue better girls, this one is done. If she were still interested you'd be banging her on a regular basis.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Pretty clear that she rebounded by fuvkin' you after her divorce/separation frm her husband.
As the other guys said, if she had strong interest in you, she wouldn't be flaking.
Shoot her a text in a month to reengage and see what happens. If she bites, then set something up, if not; no biggie because you had nothing to lose anyway.
PIMP
As the other guys said, if she had strong interest in you, she wouldn't be flaking.
Shoot her a text in a month to reengage and see what happens. If she bites, then set something up, if not; no biggie because you had nothing to lose anyway.
PIMP