Back in October of last year, I went out with this girl ( very beautiful...she is a 9 or 10). We used to work for the same company and I used to have a big crash on her. She had broken up with her husband for almost a year. Anyways we went on two dates and I ended up getting it in on the second date but she became flaky and played hard to get after that (3-4 times) . I stopped texting her but will text her once in a month to keep her on the radar. I am thinking of making contact again and trying to set up a date but knowing that she may flake. What's your experience/ideas on gaming girls that flake a lot
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How to regain control of a girl that flakes
- Thread starter lastking
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not saying it's the case here but when something similar happened to me it was because she had met someone else in the meantime and were going serious so there's nothing I could really do that wouldn't make me look needy
I just let her go and when I eventually run into her two years after that she was all huggy and receptive.
Hope it helps!
I just let her go and when I eventually run into her two years after that she was all huggy and receptive.
Hope it helps!
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My experience is that it's a waste to time. Either she's got low interest or she's banging a bunch of other guys. Spin more plates.lastking said:
VladPatton
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Complete waste of time, man. Pursue better girls, this one is done. If she were still interested you'd be banging her on a regular basis.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Pretty clear that she rebounded by fuvkin' you after her divorce/separation frm her husband.
As the other guys said, if she had strong interest in you, she wouldn't be flaking.
Shoot her a text in a month to reengage and see what happens. If she bites, then set something up, if not; no biggie because you had nothing to lose anyway.
PIMP
As the other guys said, if she had strong interest in you, she wouldn't be flaking.
Shoot her a text in a month to reengage and see what happens. If she bites, then set something up, if not; no biggie because you had nothing to lose anyway.
PIMP