"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to put a plate into the FB zone?

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Angelo

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So I've been spinning this plate that I thought was girlfriend material. She definitely is expecting to be exclusive, but... I do not like how she's been acting lately. She has this jealous personality and a bit insecure even though she's one of the hottest women I've been seeing recently. I would next her, but she's really hot like I said and I want to keep her for sex. How do I let her know that we're not going to be anything more? Maybe I should just keep sleeping with her and never ever bring up the subject until she realizes this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't fall into the hot trap. A woman is a woman is a woman, by making different decision based on a woman's "hotness" you are already pedestaling her to an extent.

Just keep doing what you are doing and if she brings it up you either next her or you tell her that you're not interested in exclusivity.

If you're good at the douchebag role you string her along. (This is not recommended by the way unless you are very good at this sort of thing.)
 
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If she is a ***** to other guys (eg leads them on etc) do whatever you can to keep her for sex.

If she is genuine, I would be up front with your intentions (wait until she brings it up seeing as you've already started). I've had this happen before, but I usually make it clear before we start having sex. Say that you don't want exclusivity (you can say you "don't do girlfriends" if you must) but make sure to tell her that you genuinely like and respect her as a person. At least that's what I do.
 
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