"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to put a plate into the FB zone?

Angelo

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So I've been spinning this plate that I thought was girlfriend material. She definitely is expecting to be exclusive, but... I do not like how she's been acting lately. She has this jealous personality and a bit insecure even though she's one of the hottest women I've been seeing recently. I would next her, but she's really hot like I said and I want to keep her for sex. How do I let her know that we're not going to be anything more? Maybe I should just keep sleeping with her and never ever bring up the subject until she realizes this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The_411

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Don't fall into the hot trap. A woman is a woman is a woman, by making different decision based on a woman's "hotness" you are already pedestaling her to an extent.

Just keep doing what you are doing and if she brings it up you either next her or you tell her that you're not interested in exclusivity.

If you're good at the douchebag role you string her along. (This is not recommended by the way unless you are very good at this sort of thing.)
 

MurdocIsGod

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If she is a ***** to other guys (eg leads them on etc) do whatever you can to keep her for sex.

If she is genuine, I would be up front with your intentions (wait until she brings it up seeing as you've already started). I've had this happen before, but I usually make it clear before we start having sex. Say that you don't want exclusivity (you can say you "don't do girlfriends" if you must) but make sure to tell her that you genuinely like and respect her as a person. At least that's what I do.
 
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