"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to put a plate into the FB zone?

Angelo

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So I've been spinning this plate that I thought was girlfriend material. She definitely is expecting to be exclusive, but... I do not like how she's been acting lately. She has this jealous personality and a bit insecure even though she's one of the hottest women I've been seeing recently. I would next her, but she's really hot like I said and I want to keep her for sex. How do I let her know that we're not going to be anything more? Maybe I should just keep sleeping with her and never ever bring up the subject until she realizes this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The_411

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Don't fall into the hot trap. A woman is a woman is a woman, by making different decision based on a woman's "hotness" you are already pedestaling her to an extent.

Just keep doing what you are doing and if she brings it up you either next her or you tell her that you're not interested in exclusivity.

If you're good at the douchebag role you string her along. (This is not recommended by the way unless you are very good at this sort of thing.)
 

MurdocIsGod

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If she is a ***** to other guys (eg leads them on etc) do whatever you can to keep her for sex.

If she is genuine, I would be up front with your intentions (wait until she brings it up seeing as you've already started). I've had this happen before, but I usually make it clear before we start having sex. Say that you don't want exclusivity (you can say you "don't do girlfriends" if you must) but make sure to tell her that you genuinely like and respect her as a person. At least that's what I do.
 
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