"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to put a plate into the FB zone?

Angelo

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So I've been spinning this plate that I thought was girlfriend material. She definitely is expecting to be exclusive, but... I do not like how she's been acting lately. She has this jealous personality and a bit insecure even though she's one of the hottest women I've been seeing recently. I would next her, but she's really hot like I said and I want to keep her for sex. How do I let her know that we're not going to be anything more? Maybe I should just keep sleeping with her and never ever bring up the subject until she realizes this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The_411

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Don't fall into the hot trap. A woman is a woman is a woman, by making different decision based on a woman's "hotness" you are already pedestaling her to an extent.

Just keep doing what you are doing and if she brings it up you either next her or you tell her that you're not interested in exclusivity.

If you're good at the douchebag role you string her along. (This is not recommended by the way unless you are very good at this sort of thing.)
 

MurdocIsGod

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If she is a ***** to other guys (eg leads them on etc) do whatever you can to keep her for sex.

If she is genuine, I would be up front with your intentions (wait until she brings it up seeing as you've already started). I've had this happen before, but I usually make it clear before we start having sex. Say that you don't want exclusivity (you can say you "don't do girlfriends" if you must) but make sure to tell her that you genuinely like and respect her as a person. At least that's what I do.
 
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