How to properly ghost a girl?

[niceguytoalphamale]

Hi guys I've been thinking about ghosting this girl I've been seeing became exclusive yesterday 2 days ago etc: chit just ain't gonna work out and I don't like how this is going, betrayal of trust so early on etc: now I've decided to go with the ghost tactic as there isn't room for working chit out, please come back etc: I don't want it anymore my interested has died. Ok so how do I do it exactly? We are friends on facebook and she has my cell phone number. Look forward to some strategies.

 

[SoSuave666]

Don't talk to her.

 

[marmel75]

 

[sosousage]

yeah because blocking number or not answerin calls is so hard

 

[soulforge]

I thought ghosting was simple.. You simply stop complete communication.

 

[marmel75]

I thought ghosting was simple.. You simply stop complete communication.

It is...except when you are a troll with over the top fabrications...who goes exclusive with some girl he has been puppy dog over for months and then "ghosts" her 2 days later? Who "ghosts" anyone they have been in a relationship with? OP, take your skirt off, put your purse down, grab your balls back and sit her down and tell her its not working out. Ghosting is weak. But I guess it works for trololololololol's

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@marmel75 put yourself in my shoes. I can't stand her family. Her friends are liars and cheaters we had a argument and she gives her number to a beta white knight. So he can listen to her problems. After she told me no male friends. Already a breach of trust. I can't sit her down and talk about it. Ok so what do I do if I can't do That?

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@soulforge I need someone here to pinpoint everything I need to do. So I can execute everything on the list.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@samspade so delete her from facebook. Block number. And just vanish?

 

[Sunnypoo]

Ghosting is so chicken chit. Just ****ing tell her your done then BE DONE WITH IT.

 

[Trump]

Who "ghosts" anyone they have been in a relationship with?

I have.

Girl I knew long time tape recorded phone conversation. Trust destroyed. No reason to talk.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Trump how did you do it?

 

[Mazer]

Sounds like you gave in to her exclusivity demands. Next time tell her you arent ready to be exclusive, do not fear her, so you won’t be posting threads like this. Good Luck.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Mazer thanks will do. So how do I proceed? I shouldn't of became exclusive I know.

 

[marmel75]

@marmel75 put yourself in my shoes. I can't stand her family. Her friends are liars and cheaters we had a argument and she gives her number to a beta white knight. So he can listen to her problems. After she told me no male friends. Already a breach of trust. I can't sit her down and talk about it. Ok so what do I do if I can't do That?

Simple. You say "This is not working out for me. Wish you all the best but I think its best if we dont see each other anymore."

 

[RickTheToad]

Block the number and you're done. It's not rocket science.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Thanks at marmel and rickthetoad. This is doesn't make me a bad person does it?

 

[RickTheToad]

Thanks at marmel and rickthetoad. This is doesn't make me a bad person does it?

Does it matter? I used to tell the lady why or I just wasn't feeling it. One did a rant on FB the other cursed me out... After one or two dates. Yes, it would be nicer to just call her or meet in public (if this was a few month long relationship), but people don't do that anymore. Some text, few call, but most just ghost and block.

If you want to feel better, but it's a waste of time, you can text her, you're a really great lady/girl/biatch/whatever, but I am not feeling the chemistry. I wish you well and I am sure you'll find what you're looking for.

However, again, just remember, no good deed goes unpunished.