Like many red pill guys, I came to all this after a particularly hard break. There was a lot going on but on my end I acted blue pill/beta and eventually she lost all respect for me. A one point she basically told me she wanted the alpha and I mentally understood what I had to do but I couldn't do, the more she tested the more I doubled down on the beta behavior. It's only recently, quite awhile after the break (and after reading the RM) that I really understand.
Anyway, that's over. But the problem I have now is that I don't feel the need to put all that effort into ****ing a lot of women. I traveled all over the world and many of the things (plat spinning etc) I already employed and have been with a lot of women. Now I go on dates and i've already nexted them within a few minutes of meeting them. I have a few that are down for sex only but that's only so fulfilling for me. I'd like to employ my new red pill mind to create a relationship that actually functions but i'm not sure if I should pull back completly and just work on myself or continue wasting my time on dates i'm not really feeling.
Anyway, that's over. But the problem I have now is that I don't feel the need to put all that effort into ****ing a lot of women. I traveled all over the world and many of the things (plat spinning etc) I already employed and have been with a lot of women. Now I go on dates and i've already nexted them within a few minutes of meeting them. I have a few that are down for sex only but that's only so fulfilling for me. I'd like to employ my new red pill mind to create a relationship that actually functions but i'm not sure if I should pull back completly and just work on myself or continue wasting my time on dates i'm not really feeling.
