"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to proceed?

ThisStopsNow

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Date 1; heavy makeout
Date 2; slept with her.
Background; known each other for a while and she's been trying to get my attention throughout.

Turns out she was the super religious type who was waiting for marriage i.e. I took her virginity. Then turns out she was seeing some guy for 6 months unofficially that 'was not working out' that she broke up with after date 1 with me.

Now she has become an emotional ball of crazy trying to work out where she stands with religion and how in her 'dishonesty', she had become someone she never planned to be.

She became scared of how quickly we became physical or how I got in her pants saying she just can't say no to me. So she wants to take it slow i.e. no sex. I told her I will always escalate and it is up to her to tell me to stop.

So where do I go from here guys? It's funny as a recovering beta how self improvement works in life. I guess in the back of my mind I'm doubting even her quality for a long term relationship although admittedly, each time we see each other, I lead and take what I want when I want.

How do I get her into bed again?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thorninmyside

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I would act like you don't give a fuk and make her work to be your b'tch again. She probably expect to be courted and that's why you shouldn't do that. You've already had the goods. No point in doing the song and dance afterwards.
 

Glassguy

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Just keep doing what you did to fvck her the first time. Why ditch a plan that worked?
 

marmel75

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Oh man..perfect situation...You can just whisper in her ear how you loved it when she ***something explicitly sexual*** and then tell her how you love seeing that naughty girl come out and how you are going to need to punish her...

This is like some 50 shades of gray waiting to happen...she is inexperienced and you can basically do anything you want with her...if you make her squirt she will be yours forever...it won't even matter what you do...

Just keep pushing the envelope sexuallya nd tell her she needs to try something at least once before she claims she doesn't like it...You can pretty much use her to play out any sexual fantasy you have...
 
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