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Why?
Honestly I’ve gotten too old and too prideful to chase. I match the effort the woman puts in. Other guys may not agree with my approach and it doesn’t always work, but it’s what I’m comfortable with. It prevents me from investing too much too. I’ll admit, I tend to move on faster than most. When a woman blows me off I don’t get all butthurt about it but I don’t try again unless she makes the effort. I won’t chase after her in a week or two weeks or whatever. That’s never worked for me in the past, any time I’ve had to chase after a woman for a follow up date it hasn’t worked out. The ones that workout then best for me are the ones that chase me and want to see me, if they have to cancel they’ll make it up to me.
Same here. As they say, It take two. That means equal reciprocation. That's what I live by these days.
Because it's extreme. A girl flaking once and you deleting her number, especially after she just came over and you banged a week earlier, is extreme. Flaking three times in a row? Fair. But once? Come on... This is just going to breed missed opportunities. Believe it or not, persisting has worked for me many times in the past. Not always, but sometimes it does pay off to chase. Also, what have you got to lose by chasing a chick? Pride? Ego? Get rid of that sh!t.
Similar attitude as me mate. No fu'ks given. Not going to waste my mental energy or time. I still like to learn new tips and read this forum, but i dont spend as much time studying game. I read about history and the great explorers and survivors (something away from women).
And there's the crux. It's neither pride nor ego, but self-respect on one hand and especially peace and focus of mind on the other. You are even younger than I and haven't reached a point yet where you feel you are losing those things by chasing pvssy, and when you start to you'll probably still feel pvssy is more important than them for a good while. But there are men who are ready to "miss out on opportunities" for pvssy any day to guarantee keeping their self-respect and mental peace & energy, so they can stay 100% rock-focused on their own life and wellbeing. You may or may not get to that point one day. That, and not pride or ego, is why our advice is what it is.
You played this well. Nice job. Short response, and that's it. Maybe her cancellation was BS or maybe it was legit. Doesn't matter. Stay NC until she reaches out or I like @Glassguy advice on hitting her up maybe 2 weeks from now with a short message. Whatever you do, don't chase. Good guys are hard to find so if she felt she had a good time with you, she'll reach out. In the meantime, make an effort to date other women so you don't get too focused on her (oneitis). You may find someone you like better.
Always amusing how these responses get their attention
And if he hits her up in 2 weeks after radio silence and there is a very delayed or no response to a valueless ping text of "hey", delete and move on.
