"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to Prevent a Cauliflower Ear?

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I've just started taking a russian sambo class, and it works wonders for my self esteem. It's very therapeutic for me even though my entire body hurts like hel1 afterwards.

But I'm worried about getting cauliflower ears. I heard that you're supposed to drain your ear if it gets red and inflamed, but are the pre-stages of cauliflower ears always that blatant? And can you drain them yourself? What time frame do you have to drain your ear once it's swollen and puffy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I dont understand. Whats russian sambo? WHat are cauliflower ears? Why would you get them, what causes it?

Btw i could probably answer all these questions myself if i wasnt lazy.

May this will help www.webmd.com
 

Pecker

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Sambo is a grappling sport much like Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

Cauliflower ears are what you get when you shock the ear and tear the skin from the cartilage. They look big and ugly.
 

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Cauliflower ear is common in boxing and wrestling as well as just about any full contact martial arts. The use of wrestling headgear allowed me to avoid getting it. I had a buddy who got it (even while using headgear) and we had to stick a needle in his ear that night to drain it. Do a search using google or ask your coach, maybe he can give you some information.

Good Luck!
 

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if anyone has ever seen the assistant wrestling coach at minnesota university you would see how gross cauliflower ear really is.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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misunderstood??

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get a scrum cap:) some ppl tape their ears to their head to prevent it too, u might look goofy though but then again so does cauliflower ear
 

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Originally posted by Pecker
I've just started taking a russian sambo class, and it works wonders for my self esteem. It's very therapeutic for me even though my entire body hurts like hel1 afterwards.

But I'm worried about getting cauliflower ears. I heard that you're supposed to drain your ear if it gets red and inflamed, but are the pre-stages of cauliflower ears always that blatant? And can you drain them yourself? What time frame do you have to drain your ear once it's swollen and puffy?
The only way to prevent that is to get a wrestling headgear. Especially doing shyt like Sambo, you could get your ear ripped off.
 
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