Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to Play This....

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Aight, here's a the situation. I have to volunteer at this hospital once a week to get community service hours done for school (they're required for Junior year). A couple weeks ago, this new girl Clare came in. She's pretty attractive, a freshman, and friendly. Well, we hit it off relatively well, and last week we enjoyed a couple minutes of alone time after we got off. She had to leave, so we both left the hospital, I said I'd see her next week. Had to come in after school Monday, and she was there because she works a couple days after school too (I normally work only Saturdays). She was surprised to see me, and didn't talk much, just looked at magazines with her friend. Not a big deal, I ain't gonna worry over the "meaning" of this or anything.

I'm looking for advice from fellow Don Juanists on how to best play this. Eventually I'd like some sort of relationship with her, be it friends with benefits or more romantically inclined. I didn't ask for her number or screenname or anything last week, mainly because we were both in a rush to leave. It'd be nice to hook up with her again tomorrow and get the number/screenname as well, but, since I'm stil lwading through the Bible and Mini-Bible, I'm not as much of an authority as other people here. Anyone got advice on the best way to go about things, or just a few tips and tricks I could try and pull off when the time comes?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jerky Boi

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You definitely need to get the number, I wouldn't bother with the screen name though. Talk to her on the phone or in person and set up sometime you guys can go out alone. Work the kino, C & F, and just keep goin' in a positive direction. It seems like you're already in good standings with her as well. You also have a pretty good advantage over her since you're a Junior this year. Get her interest someway, then become a challenge. Best advice I can give you besides finishing up on the Bible. I'd read up some more before I do anything.
 

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Get the nnumkber and flirt.
 

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ballistik, what school do you go to? I'm just curious since I live right across the river from you
 

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wow, people are closer in here then i thought. Im in Vienna VA right here :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ireton, but I'll be going back to St. Stephen's/St. Agnes next year.
 

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I go to woodrow wilson in DC... I've been to the o'connel's homecoming which might be near you. heizen, where exactly is vienna, VA?
 
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