"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to Play This....

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Aight, here's a the situation. I have to volunteer at this hospital once a week to get community service hours done for school (they're required for Junior year). A couple weeks ago, this new girl Clare came in. She's pretty attractive, a freshman, and friendly. Well, we hit it off relatively well, and last week we enjoyed a couple minutes of alone time after we got off. She had to leave, so we both left the hospital, I said I'd see her next week. Had to come in after school Monday, and she was there because she works a couple days after school too (I normally work only Saturdays). She was surprised to see me, and didn't talk much, just looked at magazines with her friend. Not a big deal, I ain't gonna worry over the "meaning" of this or anything.

I'm looking for advice from fellow Don Juanists on how to best play this. Eventually I'd like some sort of relationship with her, be it friends with benefits or more romantically inclined. I didn't ask for her number or screenname or anything last week, mainly because we were both in a rush to leave. It'd be nice to hook up with her again tomorrow and get the number/screenname as well, but, since I'm stil lwading through the Bible and Mini-Bible, I'm not as much of an authority as other people here. Anyone got advice on the best way to go about things, or just a few tips and tricks I could try and pull off when the time comes?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jerky Boi

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You definitely need to get the number, I wouldn't bother with the screen name though. Talk to her on the phone or in person and set up sometime you guys can go out alone. Work the kino, C & F, and just keep goin' in a positive direction. It seems like you're already in good standings with her as well. You also have a pretty good advantage over her since you're a Junior this year. Get her interest someway, then become a challenge. Best advice I can give you besides finishing up on the Bible. I'd read up some more before I do anything.
 

JSH

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Get the nnumkber and flirt.
 

dapork

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ballistik, what school do you go to? I'm just curious since I live right across the river from you
 

Heizen

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wow, people are closer in here then i thought. Im in Vienna VA right here :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ballistik

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Ireton, but I'll be going back to St. Stephen's/St. Agnes next year.
 

dapork

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I go to woodrow wilson in DC... I've been to the o'connel's homecoming which might be near you. heizen, where exactly is vienna, VA?
 
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