"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to overcome shortness?
- Thread starter MaxLove
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BettorOffSingle
Banned
1. Go for LJBF with every chick, initially. Continue to game while denying running game.
2. Preempt them by assuming they don't want you due to height. Scores points for self-awareness, takes pressure off them, and makes them feel guilty for being so shallow.
3. Introduce the notion that you have another girlfriend (not seen of course), and are thankful you found one who can look past your height. This stops them from stereotyping you as desperate.
4. Pivot your LJBFs. Be patient, and over time, one may very well decide that your height is not such a big issue after all.
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Will my life be portrayed just like The 40 Year Old Virgin? Yes, but without the happy ending. Thus, I dont give a **** anymore. At least I'm trying not to give a **** anymore. I know I never will, thus I have another aspect of my life to focus on and that's my financial situation. Going off to college for 6 years to study pharmacy and inherit my fathers small pharmaceutical business.
I guess it sucks that most guys can only have one or the other. The typical jerks in high school always get the hottest woman, but 40 years later end up working as a janitor in the same high school. Or the typical intelligent kid, who makes bills but can only spend it on material bull**** rather than spending it with someone else. Unfortunately my life will fall under the latter. Very difficult to have the best of both worlds. And I blame my physical height. I'm not bad looking in anyway, whatsoever. Girls call me cute all the time, and I'm fit. I'm in the middle of all the social groups but with a core group of friends. Not like it matters now though since everyone is going to college.
But it's just as someone in So Suave said in a thread about physical height just like this one: "If you are 5'3 or shorter, I don't care how much game you have or how good your seduction skills are, you are SOL unless a miracle appears."
And its true. When you pass a girl on the street, by natural instinct she disqualifies you if you dont meet her height requirements. Height is the first thing women look at to see how much of a "man" you are. Unfortunately for me, I'm disqualified by 99.9% of women. Hell my dad probably would never have been able to marry my mom if it hadn't been for an arranged marriage hahaha. I'm not being pessimistic, I'm just stating a fact.
I'm sorry OP for ranting in your thread, but I just don't think you should take for granted of what you have. Sorry for any grammatical errors. The iPad is a ***** to type on.
I just got some Honeycomb Gel insoles in the mail. 2 pairs of 1/2 in. lifts. Will 1/2 inch make a huge difference?
I can also stack both for a 1 inch boost, using high-tops or something, so my heels don't fall out the sides.
I'm mainly using the 1/2 inch with Vans, and other sneakers. Does that really make a difference you think
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.