“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to overcome shortness?

Black Dog

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Maxtro said:
Huh?

You're five freaking ten and you feel unconfident about your height?!

Any chance you could leave the height increasing insoles to the guys who actually need it?

I'm just trying to be normal, the last thing I need are tall guys boosting their height making me look even worse.
Bah. Have you ever vacationed in South America? Or Tokyo, Japan; it wouldn't hurt to try out those places, the women there are exotic as hell and roughly 4'9 average, something crazy like that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Huh?

You're five freaking ten and you feel unconfident about your height?!

Any chance you could leave the height increasing insoles to the guys who actually need it?

I'm just trying to be normal, the last thing I need are tall guys boosting their height making me look even worse.
I wouldn't use insoles if I was 6 feet. Anything below that I think it's fair game. :)
 
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Easy process:

1. Go for LJBF with every chick, initially. Continue to game while denying running game.

2. Preempt them by assuming they don't want you due to height. Scores points for self-awareness, takes pressure off them, and makes them feel guilty for being so shallow.

3. Introduce the notion that you have another girlfriend (not seen of course), and are thankful you found one who can look past your height. This stops them from stereotyping you as desperate.

4. Pivot your LJBFs. Be patient, and over time, one may very well decide that your height is not such a big issue after all.

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Wow OP. You think you're short? Try being 5'1. Fvcking genetics. I'm going off to college this year and I gave yet to even kiss a girl. ****ing sad, I know. But when you're a minority (Bengali) and short, it's a very unfortunate and deadly combination.

Will my life be portrayed just like The 40 Year Old Virgin? Yes, but without the happy ending. Thus, I dont give a **** anymore. At least I'm trying not to give a **** anymore. I know I never will, thus I have another aspect of my life to focus on and that's my financial situation. Going off to college for 6 years to study pharmacy and inherit my fathers small pharmaceutical business.

I guess it sucks that most guys can only have one or the other. The typical jerks in high school always get the hottest woman, but 40 years later end up working as a janitor in the same high school. Or the typical intelligent kid, who makes bills but can only spend it on material bull**** rather than spending it with someone else. Unfortunately my life will fall under the latter. Very difficult to have the best of both worlds. And I blame my physical height. I'm not bad looking in anyway, whatsoever. Girls call me cute all the time, and I'm fit. I'm in the middle of all the social groups but with a core group of friends. Not like it matters now though since everyone is going to college.

But it's just as someone in So Suave said in a thread about physical height just like this one: "If you are 5'3 or shorter, I don't care how much game you have or how good your seduction skills are, you are SOL unless a miracle appears."

And its true. When you pass a girl on the street, by natural instinct she disqualifies you if you dont meet her height requirements. Height is the first thing women look at to see how much of a "man" you are. Unfortunately for me, I'm disqualified by 99.9% of women. Hell my dad probably would never have been able to marry my mom if it hadn't been for an arranged marriage hahaha. I'm not being pessimistic, I'm just stating a fact.

I'm sorry OP for ranting in your thread, but I just don't think you should take for granted of what you have. Sorry for any grammatical errors. The iPad is a ***** to type on.
 

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Hey Guys,

I just got some Honeycomb Gel insoles in the mail. 2 pairs of 1/2 in. lifts. Will 1/2 inch make a huge difference?

I can also stack both for a 1 inch boost, using high-tops or something, so my heels don't fall out the sides.

I'm mainly using the 1/2 inch with Vans, and other sneakers. Does that really make a difference you think
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Black Dog said:
Hey Guys,

I just got some Honeycomb Gel insoles in the mail. 2 pairs of 1/2 in. lifts. Will 1/2 inch make a huge difference?

I can also stack both for a 1 inch boost, using high-tops or something, so my heels don't fall out the sides.

I'm mainly using the 1/2 inch with Vans, and other sneakers. Does that really make a difference you think
So what happens when you take the shoes off? Why do you care so much?
 
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