Rocko
Senior Don Juan
Ok, so, pretty much explains itself, the gym i go to has a couple HB, some from my school it turns out, any advice on how i should open em? no rush on the response
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to open girls at the gym
- Thread starter Rocko
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ROCKO! I am so happy you made this post, because I go to the gym on a regular basis I do this sort of **** all the time. Ok ok, best way to pick up a girl at the gym, bar none, is this little routine here.
*walk up to machine that girls at
Mission: Hey are you almost done with this machine (of course you know she isn't because you checked to see she just started using it, hehe)
Her: Well I have a couple more sets to do still.. (you have also chosen something like leg press etc, the girls running are not appropriate to open, you would not want randoms talking to you during a run, and neither do they)
Mission: Listen, I need to finish this workout, how bout I set in with you?
Her: Sure (they always say sure, why wouldn't they)
*now you are in guys, this is when you start talking to her, introduce yourself, pick fun at how much she is lifting "haha oh i better take my wieghts off there, wouldn't want you getting hurt!" just flirt with her, the gym is a good place, not the best, but definatly good for getting girls.
*once I noticed a girl working out and she kept looking at me as she walked by, so one time I said, "hey, you have walked by and looked at me about 5 times now and never said a word, whats up?", she says:
"well you never said hi to me either!"
Mission: "well i just did, i'm mission pleased to meet you"
Her: "im cutegirl, nice to meet you too"
Mission: "iv'e never seen you here before, and as you can tell by my massive muscles i come her all the time!"(i dont have massive muscles, just althetic build)
Her: "haha, well i come here sometimes, im not that commited to my workout..."
And it was all fluff from there.
--Mission
*walk up to machine that girls at
Mission: Hey are you almost done with this machine (of course you know she isn't because you checked to see she just started using it, hehe)
Her: Well I have a couple more sets to do still.. (you have also chosen something like leg press etc, the girls running are not appropriate to open, you would not want randoms talking to you during a run, and neither do they)
Mission: Listen, I need to finish this workout, how bout I set in with you?
Her: Sure (they always say sure, why wouldn't they)
*now you are in guys, this is when you start talking to her, introduce yourself, pick fun at how much she is lifting "haha oh i better take my wieghts off there, wouldn't want you getting hurt!" just flirt with her, the gym is a good place, not the best, but definatly good for getting girls.
*once I noticed a girl working out and she kept looking at me as she walked by, so one time I said, "hey, you have walked by and looked at me about 5 times now and never said a word, whats up?", she says:
"well you never said hi to me either!"
Mission: "well i just did, i'm mission pleased to meet you"
Her: "im cutegirl, nice to meet you too"
Mission: "iv'e never seen you here before, and as you can tell by my massive muscles i come her all the time!"(i dont have massive muscles, just althetic build)
Her: "haha, well i come here sometimes, im not that commited to my workout..."
And it was all fluff from there.
--Mission
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
haha, sounds good, was about to ask about girls runnin then i kept readin what you said, hehe thx
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
ask her to be your spotter
sparky0000
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2006
- Messages
- 669
- Reaction score
- 4
.
Drop a weight on her foot.
All the gyms...All the low fat/low carb food...All the diet books and STILL American girls are the fattest species on earth
.
Drop a weight on her foot.
All the gyms...All the low fat/low carb food...All the diet books and STILL American girls are the fattest species on earth
."The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Docs
Banned
:crackup:, nice!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
From a saftey point of veiw, this is not a good idea, if you are benching your own body weight, do you want ot relie on a girl to grab the weight, under the circumstance that you have reached failure.Microphone Fiend said:
don juan jr
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 29, 2006
- Messages
- 127
- Reaction score
- 0
Agreed ^
i can't trust a girl to lift something double her weight.
i can't trust a girl to lift something double her weight.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
ARGHHHH SPOT MEEE ARRHH. lol that would be funny. haha this post is a good one i spend alot of my time at the gym too and there is pleennnttyy of hotties cuz its mostly the hotties who wanna stay hot lol, it really makes a lot of sense huh. but yeah ive had a chick one time watch me working out and i caught her lookin at be a bunch of time but i just looked back at her i think almost too intmidating cuz i went up to her and used the machine right next to her n she seemed to get really nervous and just went down stairs shootin me another glimpse on her way down. Maybe i smelled....or maybe i was just too much man haha
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
sparky0000 said:Drop a weight on her foot.
All the gyms...All the low fat/low carb food...All the diet books and STILL American girls are the fattest species on earth
This is why they are the fattest. They don't use the gyms. They don't eat the right food (low carb isnt the way to go), they don't read the right books.
:nono:
It's sad really
I don't know about you, but when I'm at the gym, last thing on my mind is "How do I approach this girl"
I'm more concerned with the 350lbs on my back as I squat. Must just be me.