Rocko
Senior Don Juan
Ok, so, pretty much explains itself, the gym i go to has a couple HB, some from my school it turns out, any advice on how i should open em? no rush on the response
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to open girls at the gym
- Thread starter Rocko
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ROCKO! I am so happy you made this post, because I go to the gym on a regular basis I do this sort of **** all the time. Ok ok, best way to pick up a girl at the gym, bar none, is this little routine here.
*walk up to machine that girls at
Mission: Hey are you almost done with this machine (of course you know she isn't because you checked to see she just started using it, hehe)
Her: Well I have a couple more sets to do still.. (you have also chosen something like leg press etc, the girls running are not appropriate to open, you would not want randoms talking to you during a run, and neither do they)
Mission: Listen, I need to finish this workout, how bout I set in with you?
Her: Sure (they always say sure, why wouldn't they)
*now you are in guys, this is when you start talking to her, introduce yourself, pick fun at how much she is lifting "haha oh i better take my wieghts off there, wouldn't want you getting hurt!" just flirt with her, the gym is a good place, not the best, but definatly good for getting girls.
*once I noticed a girl working out and she kept looking at me as she walked by, so one time I said, "hey, you have walked by and looked at me about 5 times now and never said a word, whats up?", she says:
"well you never said hi to me either!"
Mission: "well i just did, i'm mission pleased to meet you"
Her: "im cutegirl, nice to meet you too"
Mission: "iv'e never seen you here before, and as you can tell by my massive muscles i come her all the time!"(i dont have massive muscles, just althetic build)
Her: "haha, well i come here sometimes, im not that commited to my workout..."
And it was all fluff from there.
--Mission
*walk up to machine that girls at
Mission: Hey are you almost done with this machine (of course you know she isn't because you checked to see she just started using it, hehe)
Her: Well I have a couple more sets to do still.. (you have also chosen something like leg press etc, the girls running are not appropriate to open, you would not want randoms talking to you during a run, and neither do they)
Mission: Listen, I need to finish this workout, how bout I set in with you?
Her: Sure (they always say sure, why wouldn't they)
*now you are in guys, this is when you start talking to her, introduce yourself, pick fun at how much she is lifting "haha oh i better take my wieghts off there, wouldn't want you getting hurt!" just flirt with her, the gym is a good place, not the best, but definatly good for getting girls.
*once I noticed a girl working out and she kept looking at me as she walked by, so one time I said, "hey, you have walked by and looked at me about 5 times now and never said a word, whats up?", she says:
"well you never said hi to me either!"
Mission: "well i just did, i'm mission pleased to meet you"
Her: "im cutegirl, nice to meet you too"
Mission: "iv'e never seen you here before, and as you can tell by my massive muscles i come her all the time!"(i dont have massive muscles, just althetic build)
Her: "haha, well i come here sometimes, im not that commited to my workout..."
And it was all fluff from there.
--Mission
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
haha, sounds good, was about to ask about girls runnin then i kept readin what you said, hehe thx
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
ask her to be your spotter
sparky0000
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Drop a weight on her foot.
All the gyms...All the low fat/low carb food...All the diet books and STILL American girls are the fattest species on earth
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Drop a weight on her foot.
All the gyms...All the low fat/low carb food...All the diet books and STILL American girls are the fattest species on earth
."She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Docs
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:crackup:, nice!
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
From a saftey point of veiw, this is not a good idea, if you are benching your own body weight, do you want ot relie on a girl to grab the weight, under the circumstance that you have reached failure.Microphone Fiend said:
don juan jr
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Agreed ^
i can't trust a girl to lift something double her weight.
i can't trust a girl to lift something double her weight.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
ARGHHHH SPOT MEEE ARRHH. lol that would be funny. haha this post is a good one i spend alot of my time at the gym too and there is pleennnttyy of hotties cuz its mostly the hotties who wanna stay hot lol, it really makes a lot of sense huh. but yeah ive had a chick one time watch me working out and i caught her lookin at be a bunch of time but i just looked back at her i think almost too intmidating cuz i went up to her and used the machine right next to her n she seemed to get really nervous and just went down stairs shootin me another glimpse on her way down. Maybe i smelled....or maybe i was just too much man haha
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
sparky0000 said:Drop a weight on her foot.
All the gyms...All the low fat/low carb food...All the diet books and STILL American girls are the fattest species on earth
This is why they are the fattest. They don't use the gyms. They don't eat the right food (low carb isnt the way to go), they don't read the right books.
:nono:
It's sad really
I don't know about you, but when I'm at the gym, last thing on my mind is "How do I approach this girl"
I'm more concerned with the 350lbs on my back as I squat. Must just be me.