"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to NOT let the ball get in her court?

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Demystify

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So I've discovered that one of my biggest problems is that I often let the ball get in her court. This could happen upon first meeting the girl or even after a week of knowing her. So any tips on how to NOT let the ball get in her court?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Allurre said:
Want the ball back? Wait for her to pass back.

In the meantime, don't talk to her, get on with
other areas of your life that keeps you
productive.
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Make sure she doesn't pull a Magic Johnson or Michael Jordan on you! LOL..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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.... you control the cards and let her choose between the cards that you deal.
 
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xdreamz said:
.... you control the cards and let her choose between the cards that you deal.
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Well what if she acts like the ball is in her court right off the bat? Then what should I do?
 
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