"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to NOT let the ball get in her court?

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Demystify

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So I've discovered that one of my biggest problems is that I often let the ball get in her court. This could happen upon first meeting the girl or even after a week of knowing her. So any tips on how to NOT let the ball get in her court?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Allurre said:
Want the ball back? Wait for her to pass back.

In the meantime, don't talk to her, get on with
other areas of your life that keeps you
productive.
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Make sure she doesn't pull a Magic Johnson or Michael Jordan on you! LOL..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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.... you control the cards and let her choose between the cards that you deal.
 
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xdreamz said:
.... you control the cards and let her choose between the cards that you deal.
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Well what if she acts like the ball is in her court right off the bat? Then what should I do?
 
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