"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sijas

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When I go and talk to girls in public (say like a mall), I get distracted because I'm afraid that people will look at me. I just can't concentrate on talking to the girl because of my paranoia. I try not to care but it's always there. Maybe some weed will help?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go outside more.
Weed won't help. Try not to use it more than once or twice a month.
 
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NorwegianDJ said:
Go outside more.
Weed won't help. Try not to use it more than once or twice a month.
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True words. Weed is cool, I love it, but I limit my consume very hard. Only once a month or two. Go outside, talk with people, laugh with people, don't pay attentions to your surroundings.
 
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Yea man, I agree with the others. Weed won't help because you don't want it to be your crutch. You're going to end up limiting yourself and closing yourself off from possibilities. And you want to know a secret? The other people walking past you will think that you two already know each other so they're not really going to care. Also, a lot of people are too much in their own head with their own problems to notice someone doing something ballsy like talkin to a girl. Just a little mindset change, that's all you need.
 
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