How to not care about other people?

[sijas]

When I go and talk to girls in public (say like a mall), I get distracted because I'm afraid that people will look at me. I just can't concentrate on talking to the girl because of my paranoia. I try not to care but it's always there. Maybe some weed will help?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Go outside more.
Weed won't help. Try not to use it more than once or twice a month.

 

[FG'man]

Go outside more.
Weed won't help. Try not to use it more than once or twice a month.

True words. Weed is cool, I love it, but I limit my consume very hard. Only once a month or two. Go outside, talk with people, laugh with people, don't pay attentions to your surroundings.

 

[alxrose04]

Yea man, I agree with the others. Weed won't help because you don't want it to be your crutch. You're going to end up limiting yourself and closing yourself off from possibilities. And you want to know a secret? The other people walking past you will think that you two already know each other so they're not really going to care. Also, a lot of people are too much in their own head with their own problems to notice someone doing something ballsy like talkin to a girl. Just a little mindset change, that's all you need.