"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to not care about other people?

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sijas

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When I go and talk to girls in public (say like a mall), I get distracted because I'm afraid that people will look at me. I just can't concentrate on talking to the girl because of my paranoia. I try not to care but it's always there. Maybe some weed will help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go outside more.
Weed won't help. Try not to use it more than once or twice a month.
 
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NorwegianDJ said:
Go outside more.
Weed won't help. Try not to use it more than once or twice a month.
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True words. Weed is cool, I love it, but I limit my consume very hard. Only once a month or two. Go outside, talk with people, laugh with people, don't pay attentions to your surroundings.
 
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Yea man, I agree with the others. Weed won't help because you don't want it to be your crutch. You're going to end up limiting yourself and closing yourself off from possibilities. And you want to know a secret? The other people walking past you will think that you two already know each other so they're not really going to care. Also, a lot of people are too much in their own head with their own problems to notice someone doing something ballsy like talkin to a girl. Just a little mindset change, that's all you need.
 
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