“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to NOT be the "creepy" dude.

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Here's another link that's a good topic.(How to not be creepy guy) Better to read the whole article first for anyone who posts in this thread rather than just reading replies in the thread. (Whoever made that site has some seriously well thought out normal advice.) All the links on the main blog page have great common sense advice.


http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Read the article. Can confirm I'm one of them. But no one has ever called me creepy (I think) because I've never dared approach the girls I'd be creepy with.

And it's hard to change it without working on your self (self esteem, skills in conversation) because if you try NOT to stare at women, they will notice you very hard not trying to stare at them!

;-).

The proper way to approach a girl is to show no hesitation; but once you show hesitation, she knows it and you know it, and your desire to approach becomes burdened with it.

There's really no way out except to do as the article says, start talking to girls that frighten you the most until you become comfy with them.

The way out for a creepy guy is really to build self esteem. Everything comes down to self esteem. Self respect. Love for the self.
 
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**** i didnt realize i was creepy too
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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