“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How to NOT be the "creepy" dude.

Naughty Ninja

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Here's another link that's a good topic.(How to not be creepy guy) Better to read the whole article first for anyone who posts in this thread rather than just reading replies in the thread. (Whoever made that site has some seriously well thought out normal advice.) All the links on the main blog page have great common sense advice.


http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Read the article. Can confirm I'm one of them. But no one has ever called me creepy (I think) because I've never dared approach the girls I'd be creepy with.

And it's hard to change it without working on your self (self esteem, skills in conversation) because if you try NOT to stare at women, they will notice you very hard not trying to stare at them!

;-).

The proper way to approach a girl is to show no hesitation; but once you show hesitation, she knows it and you know it, and your desire to approach becomes burdened with it.

There's really no way out except to do as the article says, start talking to girls that frighten you the most until you become comfy with them.

The way out for a creepy guy is really to build self esteem. Everything comes down to self esteem. Self respect. Love for the self.
 

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**** i didnt realize i was creepy too
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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