"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to NOT be the "creepy" dude.

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Here's another link that's a good topic.(How to not be creepy guy) Better to read the whole article first for anyone who posts in this thread rather than just reading replies in the thread. (Whoever made that site has some seriously well thought out normal advice.) All the links on the main blog page have great common sense advice.


http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Read the article. Can confirm I'm one of them. But no one has ever called me creepy (I think) because I've never dared approach the girls I'd be creepy with.

And it's hard to change it without working on your self (self esteem, skills in conversation) because if you try NOT to stare at women, they will notice you very hard not trying to stare at them!

;-).

The proper way to approach a girl is to show no hesitation; but once you show hesitation, she knows it and you know it, and your desire to approach becomes burdened with it.

There's really no way out except to do as the article says, start talking to girls that frighten you the most until you become comfy with them.

The way out for a creepy guy is really to build self esteem. Everything comes down to self esteem. Self respect. Love for the self.
 
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**** i didnt realize i was creepy too
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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