How to NOT be the "creepy" dude.

[Naughty Ninja]

Here's another link that's a good topic.(How to not be creepy guy) Better to read the whole article first for anyone who posts in this thread rather than just reading replies in the thread. (Whoever made that site has some seriously well thought out normal advice.) All the links on the main blog page have great common sense advice.


http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy

 

[Zarky]

nice, I've never really read that site but that's a good article. I'll read more.

 

[Dryden]

Read the article. Can confirm I'm one of them. But no one has ever called me creepy (I think) because I've never dared approach the girls I'd be creepy with.

And it's hard to change it without working on your self (self esteem, skills in conversation) because if you try NOT to stare at women, they will notice you very hard not trying to stare at them!

;-).

The proper way to approach a girl is to show no hesitation; but once you show hesitation, she knows it and you know it, and your desire to approach becomes burdened with it.

There's really no way out except to do as the article says, start talking to girls that frighten you the most until you become comfy with them.

The way out for a creepy guy is really to build self esteem. Everything comes down to self esteem. Self respect. Love for the self.

 

[Revel]

good article. heres one i saw next it to thats cool to.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/law-least-effort

 

[foreverAFC]

**** i didnt realize i was creepy too