Agreed...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Guys, the best way to get back at an ex is to let her see that you are not only surviving without her, you're doing better! Get in better shape and date a prettier woman. Just consider it as trading in your old model. It works every time.
I wouldn't say being too nice or being a complete *******... be firm, but fair. And if she doesn't agree, you've already given her a lot... I mean, showing fairness, in my opinion, is only something you show towards people you give a shiat about. Life is already unfair enough, you're simply balancing things in her favor by personally being fair to her. If she wants to be a ***** after that? Next...
BTW, I've been in a situation where I nexted a girl in a rude way (not too long ago, actually, but I was still learning then.) It worked hardcore against me... Don't ever burn any bridges, you won't know if they'll come crawling back... but if/when they do, you'll be so infatuated with some other chick that you'll be causing the ultimate damage... her realizing she can't have what she so desperately wants back.