"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to Never prematurely ejaculate again!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lol yeah, this is pretty much the standard way of increasing stamina. It definitely works but I wouldn't overdo it lest you go to the extreme of not being able to ejaculate at all instead of ejaculating too quickly.

all in the head
I see what you did there.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Lol yeah, this is pretty much the standard way of increasing stamina. It definitely works but I wouldn't overdo it lest you go to the extreme of not being able to ejaculate at all instead of ejaculating too quickly.
Yeah should have added that as a disclaimer.


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I see what you did there.
:whistle:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Trying to satisfy a woman is another form of putting them on a pedestal. Have you ever seen the scene in Desperado where that slvt is riding Bucho and it looks like he doesn't give a sh*t? That's how a read Don Juan does it, not all that romantic BS. That's what women want you to believe.

Now, I agree that there's a certain level of actually caring about the other person. And you certainly don't want to be a 2 pump chump. But you catch my drift.
 

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speed dawg said:
Trying to satisfy a woman is another form of putting them on a pedestal. Have you ever seen the scene in Desperado where that slvt is riding Bucho and it looks like he doesn't give a sh*t? That's how a read Don Juan does it, not all that romantic BS. That's what women want you to believe.

Now, I agree that there's a certain level of actually caring about the other person. And you certainly don't want to be a 2 pump chump. But you catch my drift.
Not satisfying a woman in bed is boring to me though. Her pleasure is my pleasure. If she's not getting anything out of it then I might as well take her out of the equation and handle things myself.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Not satisfying a woman in bed is boring to me though. Her pleasure is my pleasure. If she's not getting anything out of it then I might as well take her out of the equation and handle things myself.
yup I agree it makes sex very boring plus its good for your ego and relationship if your babe thinks your a stud
 

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You want a way to last a long time? Dextromethorphan, the stuff in cough syrup. Drink some cough syrup with that as the only active ingredient and it takes a long time to bust.
 

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Malice said:
You want a way to last a long time? Dextromethorphan, the stuff in cough syrup. Drink some cough syrup with that as the only active ingredient and it takes a long time to bust.
Apparently taking tramadol pain relieving tablet some hours before the act helps you last for at least an hour. But really all this medication is not needed if people read that link in the op
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Aside from reading the Wikipedia info, I find that reducing your erotic imagination/fantasy thoughts during sex helps a lot. In other words don't go thinking "oh my gosh look at the size of this butt, can't believe how good this sensation is". Just shag and shut up in your mind while you're at it. That way you will last for VERY long.
 
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YAboi said:
I find that reducing your erotic imagination/fantasy thoughts during sex helps a lot. In other words don't go thinking "oh my gosh look at the size of this butt, can't believe how good this sensation is". Just shag and shut up in your mind while you're at it. That way you will last for VERY long.
Which, of course, makes it less enjoyable for a bit ;)
 
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