"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to Never prematurely ejaculate again!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol yeah, this is pretty much the standard way of increasing stamina. It definitely works but I wouldn't overdo it lest you go to the extreme of not being able to ejaculate at all instead of ejaculating too quickly.

all in the head
I see what you did there.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Lol yeah, this is pretty much the standard way of increasing stamina. It definitely works but I wouldn't overdo it lest you go to the extreme of not being able to ejaculate at all instead of ejaculating too quickly.
Yeah should have added that as a disclaimer.


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I see what you did there.
:whistle:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trying to satisfy a woman is another form of putting them on a pedestal. Have you ever seen the scene in Desperado where that slvt is riding Bucho and it looks like he doesn't give a sh*t? That's how a read Don Juan does it, not all that romantic BS. That's what women want you to believe.

Now, I agree that there's a certain level of actually caring about the other person. And you certainly don't want to be a 2 pump chump. But you catch my drift.
 

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speed dawg said:
Trying to satisfy a woman is another form of putting them on a pedestal. Have you ever seen the scene in Desperado where that slvt is riding Bucho and it looks like he doesn't give a sh*t? That's how a read Don Juan does it, not all that romantic BS. That's what women want you to believe.

Now, I agree that there's a certain level of actually caring about the other person. And you certainly don't want to be a 2 pump chump. But you catch my drift.
Not satisfying a woman in bed is boring to me though. Her pleasure is my pleasure. If she's not getting anything out of it then I might as well take her out of the equation and handle things myself.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Not satisfying a woman in bed is boring to me though. Her pleasure is my pleasure. If she's not getting anything out of it then I might as well take her out of the equation and handle things myself.
yup I agree it makes sex very boring plus its good for your ego and relationship if your babe thinks your a stud
 

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You want a way to last a long time? Dextromethorphan, the stuff in cough syrup. Drink some cough syrup with that as the only active ingredient and it takes a long time to bust.
 

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Malice said:
You want a way to last a long time? Dextromethorphan, the stuff in cough syrup. Drink some cough syrup with that as the only active ingredient and it takes a long time to bust.
Apparently taking tramadol pain relieving tablet some hours before the act helps you last for at least an hour. But really all this medication is not needed if people read that link in the op
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aside from reading the Wikipedia info, I find that reducing your erotic imagination/fantasy thoughts during sex helps a lot. In other words don't go thinking "oh my gosh look at the size of this butt, can't believe how good this sensation is". Just shag and shut up in your mind while you're at it. That way you will last for VERY long.
 
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YAboi said:
I find that reducing your erotic imagination/fantasy thoughts during sex helps a lot. In other words don't go thinking "oh my gosh look at the size of this butt, can't believe how good this sensation is". Just shag and shut up in your mind while you're at it. That way you will last for VERY long.
Which, of course, makes it less enjoyable for a bit ;)
 
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