"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to Never prematurely ejaculate again!

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lol yeah, this is pretty much the standard way of increasing stamina. It definitely works but I wouldn't overdo it lest you go to the extreme of not being able to ejaculate at all instead of ejaculating too quickly.

all in the head
I see what you did there.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Lol yeah, this is pretty much the standard way of increasing stamina. It definitely works but I wouldn't overdo it lest you go to the extreme of not being able to ejaculate at all instead of ejaculating too quickly.
Yeah should have added that as a disclaimer.


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I see what you did there.
:whistle:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trying to satisfy a woman is another form of putting them on a pedestal. Have you ever seen the scene in Desperado where that slvt is riding Bucho and it looks like he doesn't give a sh*t? That's how a read Don Juan does it, not all that romantic BS. That's what women want you to believe.

Now, I agree that there's a certain level of actually caring about the other person. And you certainly don't want to be a 2 pump chump. But you catch my drift.
 

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speed dawg said:
Trying to satisfy a woman is another form of putting them on a pedestal. Have you ever seen the scene in Desperado where that slvt is riding Bucho and it looks like he doesn't give a sh*t? That's how a read Don Juan does it, not all that romantic BS. That's what women want you to believe.

Now, I agree that there's a certain level of actually caring about the other person. And you certainly don't want to be a 2 pump chump. But you catch my drift.
Not satisfying a woman in bed is boring to me though. Her pleasure is my pleasure. If she's not getting anything out of it then I might as well take her out of the equation and handle things myself.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Not satisfying a woman in bed is boring to me though. Her pleasure is my pleasure. If she's not getting anything out of it then I might as well take her out of the equation and handle things myself.
yup I agree it makes sex very boring plus its good for your ego and relationship if your babe thinks your a stud
 

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You want a way to last a long time? Dextromethorphan, the stuff in cough syrup. Drink some cough syrup with that as the only active ingredient and it takes a long time to bust.
 

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Malice said:
You want a way to last a long time? Dextromethorphan, the stuff in cough syrup. Drink some cough syrup with that as the only active ingredient and it takes a long time to bust.
Apparently taking tramadol pain relieving tablet some hours before the act helps you last for at least an hour. But really all this medication is not needed if people read that link in the op
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aside from reading the Wikipedia info, I find that reducing your erotic imagination/fantasy thoughts during sex helps a lot. In other words don't go thinking "oh my gosh look at the size of this butt, can't believe how good this sensation is". Just shag and shut up in your mind while you're at it. That way you will last for VERY long.
 
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YAboi said:
I find that reducing your erotic imagination/fantasy thoughts during sex helps a lot. In other words don't go thinking "oh my gosh look at the size of this butt, can't believe how good this sensation is". Just shag and shut up in your mind while you're at it. That way you will last for VERY long.
Which, of course, makes it less enjoyable for a bit ;)
 
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