So I'm always out with my friends just chillin and what noy. I'll go start talking it up with the ladies and they'll be like I gotta go or some lame excuse like that. I come from a small place and you won't find alot of friends tro be wingman. Do you guys got anyways I can motivate them to be wingman with me and stop being such wussys.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to motivate my friends...
- Thread starter Dustin
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LiveStrong
Don Juan
Lead them!!! Lead by example....show them how easy it is to mack....show them how to stop being wussies (dont tell them theyre wussies)..allow them to watch you work your skills and improve your game...eventually they will wonder "how he does it"...this is where you have to start to teach your new disciples...tell them what you use that works...take em out and show them it works...then you can all start practicing together 
MinDFreeZ
Don Juan
I don't like ^ that idea... it intimidates them if they are truley scared already.... have them read something motivational.. seriously, might get flamed for this.. but have them read The Game... pages 20-100 at least.. those pages are motivational and talk most about how Style got INTO the game, and really it makes you feel good and want to go out and talk to girls... but do not try to lead by example, they'll always feel you are above them, and that will show when they wing for you.
-(in a bad way, less talkative and whatnot)
-(in a bad way, less talkative and whatnot)
LiveStrong
Don Juan
yeah mindfreeze makes a good point....have them read the Game..very motivational
you can still lead by example but be sure to engage them in the conversation with the HB...complimant them and make them feel good about what they are doing
after the HB is gone talk to them about what mistakes yourself made while talking to the HB...point out your faults let them see how much work it takes for self-improvement...they'll get the jest of things
-respect
you can still lead by example but be sure to engage them in the conversation with the HB...complimant them and make them feel good about what they are doing
after the HB is gone talk to them about what mistakes yourself made while talking to the HB...point out your faults let them see how much work it takes for self-improvement...they'll get the jest of things
-respect
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop wasting your time. You can't make anyone do what they don't want to do. If they do, they won't keep it up. Until they choose to actually want to do something, you will just end up even more frustrated.