So I'm always out with my friends just chillin and what noy. I'll go start talking it up with the ladies and they'll be like I gotta go or some lame excuse like that. I come from a small place and you won't find alot of friends tro be wingman. Do you guys got anyways I can motivate them to be wingman with me and stop being such wussys.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to motivate my friends...
- Thread starter Dustin
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LiveStrong
Don Juan
Lead them!!! Lead by example....show them how easy it is to mack....show them how to stop being wussies (dont tell them theyre wussies)..allow them to watch you work your skills and improve your game...eventually they will wonder "how he does it"...this is where you have to start to teach your new disciples...tell them what you use that works...take em out and show them it works...then you can all start practicing together 
MinDFreeZ
Don Juan
I don't like ^ that idea... it intimidates them if they are truley scared already.... have them read something motivational.. seriously, might get flamed for this.. but have them read The Game... pages 20-100 at least.. those pages are motivational and talk most about how Style got INTO the game, and really it makes you feel good and want to go out and talk to girls... but do not try to lead by example, they'll always feel you are above them, and that will show when they wing for you.
-(in a bad way, less talkative and whatnot)
-(in a bad way, less talkative and whatnot)
LiveStrong
Don Juan
yeah mindfreeze makes a good point....have them read the Game..very motivational
you can still lead by example but be sure to engage them in the conversation with the HB...complimant them and make them feel good about what they are doing
after the HB is gone talk to them about what mistakes yourself made while talking to the HB...point out your faults let them see how much work it takes for self-improvement...they'll get the jest of things
-respect
you can still lead by example but be sure to engage them in the conversation with the HB...complimant them and make them feel good about what they are doing
after the HB is gone talk to them about what mistakes yourself made while talking to the HB...point out your faults let them see how much work it takes for self-improvement...they'll get the jest of things
-respect
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop wasting your time. You can't make anyone do what they don't want to do. If they do, they won't keep it up. Until they choose to actually want to do something, you will just end up even more frustrated.