So I'm always out with my friends just chillin and what noy. I'll go start talking it up with the ladies and they'll be like I gotta go or some lame excuse like that. I come from a small place and you won't find alot of friends tro be wingman. Do you guys got anyways I can motivate them to be wingman with me and stop being such wussys.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How to motivate my friends...
- Thread starter Dustin
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LiveStrong
Don Juan
Lead them!!! Lead by example....show them how easy it is to mack....show them how to stop being wussies (dont tell them theyre wussies)..allow them to watch you work your skills and improve your game...eventually they will wonder "how he does it"...this is where you have to start to teach your new disciples...tell them what you use that works...take em out and show them it works...then you can all start practicing together 
MinDFreeZ
Don Juan
I don't like ^ that idea... it intimidates them if they are truley scared already.... have them read something motivational.. seriously, might get flamed for this.. but have them read The Game... pages 20-100 at least.. those pages are motivational and talk most about how Style got INTO the game, and really it makes you feel good and want to go out and talk to girls... but do not try to lead by example, they'll always feel you are above them, and that will show when they wing for you.
-(in a bad way, less talkative and whatnot)
-(in a bad way, less talkative and whatnot)
LiveStrong
Don Juan
yeah mindfreeze makes a good point....have them read the Game..very motivational
you can still lead by example but be sure to engage them in the conversation with the HB...complimant them and make them feel good about what they are doing
after the HB is gone talk to them about what mistakes yourself made while talking to the HB...point out your faults let them see how much work it takes for self-improvement...they'll get the jest of things
-respect
you can still lead by example but be sure to engage them in the conversation with the HB...complimant them and make them feel good about what they are doing
after the HB is gone talk to them about what mistakes yourself made while talking to the HB...point out your faults let them see how much work it takes for self-improvement...they'll get the jest of things
-respect
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stop wasting your time. You can't make anyone do what they don't want to do. If they do, they won't keep it up. Until they choose to actually want to do something, you will just end up even more frustrated.