"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to meet girls at informal dances

marines_hooorah

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Hey Guys,
I'm new here, but ive been reading articles for a little more than a year. My first question is one that I have not been able to find an exact answer to for a while. The question is....... how do you meet girls at informals, mixers, nightclubs, whatever you wanna call it but all that same scenario. The music seems too loud to really talk to the girls and woo them. Got any tips on anything(it doesnt have to pertain to the music , that was just a suggestion.) ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this is my new technique ive devloped recently, find a group of girls dance, maybe introduce and grind and whatever :p works for me . get numbers after
 

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if they look like hoes, go start dancing with em and start feelin up on her hips.

if she like you its done.

go up to a dumb hoe and ask her if her dumb hoe ass "wanna dance with me?" its really that easy. do it with a smile i doubt she'll refuse?
 

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I have no problem getting to dance with the girls and grinding and stuff, but when the number thing comes around it gets kinda hard. I cant just be like, " yo wats ur number while im felling her up." Help ?
 

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no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marines_hooorah

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G Rambo34 said:
no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
thanks man, something so simple but it will work.
 
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