"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to meet girls at informal dances

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Hey Guys,
I'm new here, but ive been reading articles for a little more than a year. My first question is one that I have not been able to find an exact answer to for a while. The question is....... how do you meet girls at informals, mixers, nightclubs, whatever you wanna call it but all that same scenario. The music seems too loud to really talk to the girls and woo them. Got any tips on anything(it doesnt have to pertain to the music , that was just a suggestion.) ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this is my new technique ive devloped recently, find a group of girls dance, maybe introduce and grind and whatever :p works for me . get numbers after
 
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if they look like hoes, go start dancing with em and start feelin up on her hips.

if she like you its done.

go up to a dumb hoe and ask her if her dumb hoe ass "wanna dance with me?" its really that easy. do it with a smile i doubt she'll refuse?
 
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I have no problem getting to dance with the girls and grinding and stuff, but when the number thing comes around it gets kinda hard. I cant just be like, " yo wats ur number while im felling her up." Help ?
 
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no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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G Rambo34 said:
no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
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thanks man, something so simple but it will work.
 
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