"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to meet girls at informal dances

marines_hooorah

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Hey Guys,
I'm new here, but ive been reading articles for a little more than a year. My first question is one that I have not been able to find an exact answer to for a while. The question is....... how do you meet girls at informals, mixers, nightclubs, whatever you wanna call it but all that same scenario. The music seems too loud to really talk to the girls and woo them. Got any tips on anything(it doesnt have to pertain to the music , that was just a suggestion.) ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bryce556

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this is my new technique ive devloped recently, find a group of girls dance, maybe introduce and grind and whatever :p works for me . get numbers after
 

AC/DC

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if they look like hoes, go start dancing with em and start feelin up on her hips.

if she like you its done.

go up to a dumb hoe and ask her if her dumb hoe ass "wanna dance with me?" its really that easy. do it with a smile i doubt she'll refuse?
 

marines_hooorah

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I have no problem getting to dance with the girls and grinding and stuff, but when the number thing comes around it gets kinda hard. I cant just be like, " yo wats ur number while im felling her up." Help ?
 

G Rambo34

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no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marines_hooorah

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G Rambo34 said:
no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
thanks man, something so simple but it will work.
 
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