"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to meet girls at informal dances

marines_hooorah

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Hey Guys,
I'm new here, but ive been reading articles for a little more than a year. My first question is one that I have not been able to find an exact answer to for a while. The question is....... how do you meet girls at informals, mixers, nightclubs, whatever you wanna call it but all that same scenario. The music seems too loud to really talk to the girls and woo them. Got any tips on anything(it doesnt have to pertain to the music , that was just a suggestion.) ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bryce556

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this is my new technique ive devloped recently, find a group of girls dance, maybe introduce and grind and whatever :p works for me . get numbers after
 

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if they look like hoes, go start dancing with em and start feelin up on her hips.

if she like you its done.

go up to a dumb hoe and ask her if her dumb hoe ass "wanna dance with me?" its really that easy. do it with a smile i doubt she'll refuse?
 

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I have no problem getting to dance with the girls and grinding and stuff, but when the number thing comes around it gets kinda hard. I cant just be like, " yo wats ur number while im felling her up." Help ?
 

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no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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marines_hooorah

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G Rambo34 said:
no. its like being in a mini club. you cant really hear each other. what you gotta do is if you really feelin her and she feelin you, grab her hand and pull her out of the crowd, not forefully, but with command and confidence that will put points up for u. take her outside or to a quiet area, talk it up for a bit, or not long thats your call. say i had a great time dancing with you, we should chill again or something. get the number and leave.
thanks man, something so simple but it will work.
 
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