"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how to measure the 'interest level' of a girl/woman

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I don't really understand why such a formula would even be useful. What does it matter if a girl has 90% interest or 75% interest? As far as I'm concerened, interest is a true or false proposition. If she has interest, you should pursue her. If she has no interest, there is usually very little you can do to change that.

I know it's tempting to try and quantify interest so we can know if a girl "kinda likes me" or "really likes me" but in the end it doesn't matter. You're either dateable or undateable and that's all it comes down to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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solved it!

y = interest level
z = phi (eye contact when finished with her looking down/eye contact when finished with her looking away)
x = phi (girl's rating out of ten).

y= z/x

DONE. Aren't I a genius? (I did A level maths mwaha)

You could always go and talk to her, and maybe if she starts playing with her hair interested level = 1/1 , if she starts walking away from you maybe interest level = 0/1. That's also a pretty good algorithm

Maybe you could plot a graph using y=mx+c? (Go to clubs mate, stop making girlie algorithms)
 

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Gabriel, it is widely understood throughout psychology that many things CANNOT be quantified - at least, not accurately and in a way representative of the phenomenon (hence the increased popularity of qualitative, descriptive research.)

To date, "personality" remains an intangible, incohrerent concept, and can certainly not be measured with any degree of reliability or validity (Im sure that, in your field, you understand the terms!)

All existing personality scales and inventories have been shown to be fundamentally flawed, either in terms of design or application, and there exists no generalizable, let alone comprehensive, "theory" of personality.

In this way, a social phenomenon involving two personalities is not amenable to accurate, objective, empirical observation, nor scientific/mathematical representation.





Phew.
 

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[(2ex/15x^12*0.12423xy)(21x^25%r-lc.3)(12-5)]
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
[(2ex/15x^12*0.12423xy)(21x^25%r-lc.3)(12-5)]
i got 16.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Of course there will never be a exact formula to gauge the interest level, you do it by knowing common signs of interest and going on from there:

Compliments you on everything

Disagreeing but laughing, flirtasious sarcasm

Laughs at your lame jokes if they're lame

Kino

If you take a piss and you come back she's still their waiting for you

Doesn't flinch if you reach across her to grab a drink or whatnot, meaning she's physically comfortable with you


Body language, etc...

Not an exact science but add all of the signs up and you have your interest level, more is better.
 

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a note to amf : I am a cognitive-behaviorist so that explains that I believe everything is science, whilst I express my utter disgust to diplomatic lies, he is the perfect example of someone sitting here, typing nonesens with thousands of threads, that does not make him an expert don juan, it just makes him a expert typist!! lol
 
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