"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey i just broke up with my gf of 9 months and we decided to be friends. my question is how can i make sure other girls arent weirded out by this but still have my ex as a friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like Pfeile said there isn't any reason for them to be weirded out. In fact it's helpful in loads of ways because if you're ex started *****ing about you to her friends then that would be bad. You're showing that if a relationship doesn't work then you can still be good friends.
 
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well i mean,if they see us talking in the halls or something i dont want people to be like "are they together or what,blahblahblah" idk im probly a little paranoid bout it. we were together for about 10 months so im not totally sure im over her yet so i dont want to end up wanting to get back with her cause i know if i did, id just get that bad feeling again. eh
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by mrsoy
im probly a little paranoid bout it.
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Yes you are. Forget about that.

BUT MAKE SURE THAT YOU DON'T HAVE ONEITIS !!!!!!
This will NEVER lead to a good end (because she will simply not be attracted by you but may use you, she also is probably still very young) and then indeed your reputation will be the one of a FOOL AND IDIOT. But the worst is: It will not only be your reputation: you waste a lot of time, and you spend it with suffering. Do you want that ?

At least thats my expierence. Been there, did it.

You are still VERY young, have a look around !!!!!

MoveYourA$$.. and your brain will follow
 
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