I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
I would like to know how you make someone else stop having feelings for you. I've already tried a lot of things, but I'm currently at a loss.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to make someone fall out of love with me
- Thread starter I-am-someone
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
The opposite of what got them to like you. Be a chump. Be a p*ssy. Talk about how much you love them. All the time. It'll scare them.
Or else just deal with it.
Or else just deal with it.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
that wont work.Skilla_Staz said:
if she already loves him..she wont see it was chump behavior..but probably as something "cute"
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Stop showering and/or brushing your teeth.................she'l be running for the hills 
Consantly disagree and talk about issues you know that bothers him/her.. and TAKE THE SIDE THAT SHE OPPOSES. Be stern about it too, don't laugh. Pay less attention to him/her, flirt with others and spend more time with your friends.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i have this same problem, really bad. I have a girl that is obsessed with me in every sense of the word, tells me she loves me all the time, and i always just say I dont want a gf but we still ****. I am afraid to tell her about other girls cuz it will crush her. I need to turn her off but I dont know how.
Remulak
Senior Don Juan
I agree with what Skilla said, be clingy, call her all the time and tell her you can't live without her. The reason she's soo into you is because you're not feeling her.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
be an *******.....plain and simple
I don't care what anyone says, it will turn her off
I don't care what anyone says, it will turn her off
I love Hyori Lee
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Avoid her.
Absence makes the heart go fonder is a myth.
Out of sight, out of mind is the truth.
Stop talking to her.
Stop calling her.
Stop hanging out with her.
Stop being with her.
Avoid her.
That's how you lose friends.
Absence makes the heart go fonder is a myth.
Out of sight, out of mind is the truth.
Stop talking to her.
Stop calling her.
Stop hanging out with her.
Stop being with her.
Avoid her.
That's how you lose friends.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Hmm.. on the flipside.I love Hyori Lee said:
See her every single day. Spend as much time as possible with her for the next two weeks. Go with her EVERYWHERE.
Call her al the time. And make sure that the conversations are long and pointless.
She'll like it for a few hours.. then just get really annoyed.
After that, she'll tell you to go away.
Then you just cut off all contact. (see above poster).
Does it seem like it could work guys?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.