"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to make someone fall out of love with me

I-am-someone

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I would like to know how you make someone else stop having feelings for you. I've already tried a lot of things, but I'm currently at a loss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Skilla_Staz

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The opposite of what got them to like you. Be a chump. Be a p*ssy. Talk about how much you love them. All the time. It'll scare them.

Or else just deal with it.
 

frivolousz21

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Skilla_Staz said:
The opposite of what got them to like you. Be a chump. Be a p*ssy. Talk about how much you love them. All the time. It'll scare them.

Or else just deal with it.
that wont work.

if she already loves him..she wont see it was chump behavior..but probably as something "cute"
 

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Stop showering and/or brushing your teeth.................she'l be running for the hills :eek:
 

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Consantly disagree and talk about issues you know that bothers him/her.. and TAKE THE SIDE THAT SHE OPPOSES. Be stern about it too, don't laugh. Pay less attention to him/her, flirt with others and spend more time with your friends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dice

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i have this same problem, really bad. I have a girl that is obsessed with me in every sense of the word, tells me she loves me all the time, and i always just say I dont want a gf but we still ****. I am afraid to tell her about other girls cuz it will crush her. I need to turn her off but I dont know how.
 

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I agree with what Skilla said, be clingy, call her all the time and tell her you can't live without her. The reason she's soo into you is because you're not feeling her.
 

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be an *******.....plain and simple

I don't care what anyone says, it will turn her off
 
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I love Hyori Lee said:
Avoid her.

Absence makes the heart go fonder is a myth.

Out of sight, out of mind is the truth.

Stop talking to her.
Stop calling her.
Stop hanging out with her.
Stop being with her.
Avoid her.
That's how you lose friends.
Hmm.. on the flipside.

See her every single day. Spend as much time as possible with her for the next two weeks. Go with her EVERYWHERE.

Call her al the time. And make sure that the conversations are long and pointless.

She'll like it for a few hours.. then just get really annoyed.

After that, she'll tell you to go away.

Then you just cut off all contact. (see above poster).




Does it seem like it could work guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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