I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
I would like to know how you make someone else stop having feelings for you. I've already tried a lot of things, but I'm currently at a loss.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to make someone fall out of love with me
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
The opposite of what got them to like you. Be a chump. Be a p*ssy. Talk about how much you love them. All the time. It'll scare them.
Or else just deal with it.
Or else just deal with it.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
that wont work.Skilla_Staz said:
if she already loves him..she wont see it was chump behavior..but probably as something "cute"
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Stop showering and/or brushing your teeth.................she'l be running for the hills 
Consantly disagree and talk about issues you know that bothers him/her.. and TAKE THE SIDE THAT SHE OPPOSES. Be stern about it too, don't laugh. Pay less attention to him/her, flirt with others and spend more time with your friends.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i have this same problem, really bad. I have a girl that is obsessed with me in every sense of the word, tells me she loves me all the time, and i always just say I dont want a gf but we still ****. I am afraid to tell her about other girls cuz it will crush her. I need to turn her off but I dont know how.
Remulak
Senior Don Juan
I agree with what Skilla said, be clingy, call her all the time and tell her you can't live without her. The reason she's soo into you is because you're not feeling her.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
be an *******.....plain and simple
I don't care what anyone says, it will turn her off
I don't care what anyone says, it will turn her off
I love Hyori Lee
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Avoid her.
Absence makes the heart go fonder is a myth.
Out of sight, out of mind is the truth.
Stop talking to her.
Stop calling her.
Stop hanging out with her.
Stop being with her.
Avoid her.
That's how you lose friends.
Absence makes the heart go fonder is a myth.
Out of sight, out of mind is the truth.
Stop talking to her.
Stop calling her.
Stop hanging out with her.
Stop being with her.
Avoid her.
That's how you lose friends.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Hmm.. on the flipside.I love Hyori Lee said:
See her every single day. Spend as much time as possible with her for the next two weeks. Go with her EVERYWHERE.
Call her al the time. And make sure that the conversations are long and pointless.
She'll like it for a few hours.. then just get really annoyed.
After that, she'll tell you to go away.
Then you just cut off all contact. (see above poster).
Does it seem like it could work guys?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.