"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to make her your fvck buddy?

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I remember I've read somewhere at sosuave about how to get her to be your fvck buddy, but I can't find that now.

I'm in a position with a girl where I'm trying to make her my fvck buddy, I could be her boyfriend easily, but I'm going for the fvck buddy stuff. Though I'm not quite sure of what I'm doing, and I would really like to cut losses by knowing about this sh1t and not to experiment, which is very fun... but risky

sooo please link me or talk about this sh1t.

:crazy: t h a n k y o u v e r y m u c h :crazy:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Juan_Man

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Friendship and Sex don't mix well at all.
 
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Hey, but I remember a section of sosuave about fvck buddys. Come on guys, help me... is it possible? should I go for a relationship?
 
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Give us some good information first before you ask for good advice.

All you've said is:

I know this girl. "I'm in a position" to make her my fvck buddy. I want her to be my fvck buddy. Help me.

-Damian
 
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i have the same question. if she has a boyfriend, how do you get her to be your FB?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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On the off note, I don't exactly condone this sort of behaviour. It's the kind of immature, manipulative, horny teenager thing to do that will only end up creating drama. When you enter a real sexual relationship, you'll find that the emotional attachment that you have will give you better sex with your partner than with any other FB on the block.

-Damian
 
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Well, if you're already ****ing her then there's no problem. Just continue on and if she doesn't say anything great.

If she does and asks "Where is this going?" you have one of two options:

1. Lie and lead her on, never disclose your plans. This will probably end badly due to you being a lying ****.
2. Be completely honest and tell her you like things the way they are, as it benefits both of you. If you're smooth, she will keep things the way they are (i.e. **** buddy). If not, she has nothing to hold against you since you were mature about it and you can still be friends most likely.

If you're not ****ing her, well get on it! Literally!
 
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Just do it

Yes, you just do it. If you go over there and she frequently says no, then you try standard techniques to get her into it. Make it playful, freeze out (I almost never need this, so I don't have much experience with it), and at some point if all else fails you just tell her that you want to have sex with her when you see her. I just did this a couple weeks ago and the girl is still seeing me.
 
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