"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to make her your fvck buddy?

sam21

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I remember I've read somewhere at sosuave about how to get her to be your fvck buddy, but I can't find that now.

I'm in a position with a girl where I'm trying to make her my fvck buddy, I could be her boyfriend easily, but I'm going for the fvck buddy stuff. Though I'm not quite sure of what I'm doing, and I would really like to cut losses by knowing about this sh1t and not to experiment, which is very fun... but risky

sooo please link me or talk about this sh1t.

:crazy: t h a n k y o u v e r y m u c h :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Juan_Man

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Friendship and Sex don't mix well at all.
 

sam21

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Hey, but I remember a section of sosuave about fvck buddys. Come on guys, help me... is it possible? should I go for a relationship?
 

Damian

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Give us some good information first before you ask for good advice.

All you've said is:

I know this girl. "I'm in a position" to make her my fvck buddy. I want her to be my fvck buddy. Help me.

-Damian
 
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i have the same question. if she has a boyfriend, how do you get her to be your FB?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Damian

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On the off note, I don't exactly condone this sort of behaviour. It's the kind of immature, manipulative, horny teenager thing to do that will only end up creating drama. When you enter a real sexual relationship, you'll find that the emotional attachment that you have will give you better sex with your partner than with any other FB on the block.

-Damian
 

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Well, if you're already ****ing her then there's no problem. Just continue on and if she doesn't say anything great.

If she does and asks "Where is this going?" you have one of two options:

1. Lie and lead her on, never disclose your plans. This will probably end badly due to you being a lying ****.
2. Be completely honest and tell her you like things the way they are, as it benefits both of you. If you're smooth, she will keep things the way they are (i.e. **** buddy). If not, she has nothing to hold against you since you were mature about it and you can still be friends most likely.

If you're not ****ing her, well get on it! Literally!
 

everywomanshero

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Just do it

Yes, you just do it. If you go over there and she frequently says no, then you try standard techniques to get her into it. Make it playful, freeze out (I almost never need this, so I don't have much experience with it), and at some point if all else fails you just tell her that you want to have sex with her when you see her. I just did this a couple weeks ago and the girl is still seeing me.
 
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