"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to make her your fvck buddy?

sam21

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I remember I've read somewhere at sosuave about how to get her to be your fvck buddy, but I can't find that now.

I'm in a position with a girl where I'm trying to make her my fvck buddy, I could be her boyfriend easily, but I'm going for the fvck buddy stuff. Though I'm not quite sure of what I'm doing, and I would really like to cut losses by knowing about this sh1t and not to experiment, which is very fun... but risky

sooo please link me or talk about this sh1t.

:crazy: t h a n k y o u v e r y m u c h :crazy:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Juan_Man

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Friendship and Sex don't mix well at all.
 

sam21

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Hey, but I remember a section of sosuave about fvck buddys. Come on guys, help me... is it possible? should I go for a relationship?
 

Damian

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Give us some good information first before you ask for good advice.

All you've said is:

I know this girl. "I'm in a position" to make her my fvck buddy. I want her to be my fvck buddy. Help me.

-Damian
 
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i have the same question. if she has a boyfriend, how do you get her to be your FB?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Damian

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On the off note, I don't exactly condone this sort of behaviour. It's the kind of immature, manipulative, horny teenager thing to do that will only end up creating drama. When you enter a real sexual relationship, you'll find that the emotional attachment that you have will give you better sex with your partner than with any other FB on the block.

-Damian
 

ShizamDaMan

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Well, if you're already ****ing her then there's no problem. Just continue on and if she doesn't say anything great.

If she does and asks "Where is this going?" you have one of two options:

1. Lie and lead her on, never disclose your plans. This will probably end badly due to you being a lying ****.
2. Be completely honest and tell her you like things the way they are, as it benefits both of you. If you're smooth, she will keep things the way they are (i.e. **** buddy). If not, she has nothing to hold against you since you were mature about it and you can still be friends most likely.

If you're not ****ing her, well get on it! Literally!
 

everywomanshero

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Just do it

Yes, you just do it. If you go over there and she frequently says no, then you try standard techniques to get her into it. Make it playful, freeze out (I almost never need this, so I don't have much experience with it), and at some point if all else fails you just tell her that you want to have sex with her when you see her. I just did this a couple weeks ago and the girl is still seeing me.
 
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