"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how to make an excuse?

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Hello everyone,

I'm in a bit of a dilema. There is a guy in the local pub who seems very aggressive , but I get on okay with. He wants to us to go drinking together tonight but I feel that he will gets us into a fight.
But when I said I may not go he begs me to go. My gut feeling is to make an excuse, on the other hand he attracts the women because he is very in your face. He has a girlfriend so why he wants to go drinking with me is a mystery
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think there's anything wrong with a "guys night-out" if his gf is cool with it. Just as I'm sure his gf likes spending time once in a while with her girlfriends.
However, if you don't wanna hang-out with this guy,
you are not obligated to.
 
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You don't have to give a reason. If you don't want to go drinking with this guy then don't.
 
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