Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to make an excuse?

Red_Tiger

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Hello everyone,

I'm in a bit of a dilema. There is a guy in the local pub who seems very aggressive , but I get on okay with. He wants to us to go drinking together tonight but I feel that he will gets us into a fight.
But when I said I may not go he begs me to go. My gut feeling is to make an excuse, on the other hand he attracts the women because he is very in your face. He has a girlfriend so why he wants to go drinking with me is a mystery
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AbsoluteFreakinChump

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I don't think there's anything wrong with a "guys night-out" if his gf is cool with it. Just as I'm sure his gf likes spending time once in a while with her girlfriends.
However, if you don't wanna hang-out with this guy,
you are not obligated to.
 

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You don't have to give a reason. If you don't want to go drinking with this guy then don't.
 
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