"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to make an excuse?

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Red_Tiger

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Hello everyone,

I'm in a bit of a dilema. There is a guy in the local pub who seems very aggressive , but I get on okay with. He wants to us to go drinking together tonight but I feel that he will gets us into a fight.
But when I said I may not go he begs me to go. My gut feeling is to make an excuse, on the other hand he attracts the women because he is very in your face. He has a girlfriend so why he wants to go drinking with me is a mystery
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AbsoluteFreakinChump

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I don't think there's anything wrong with a "guys night-out" if his gf is cool with it. Just as I'm sure his gf likes spending time once in a while with her girlfriends.
However, if you don't wanna hang-out with this guy,
you are not obligated to.
 
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You don't have to give a reason. If you don't want to go drinking with this guy then don't.
 
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