a girl ive been talking to is gonna sleep over at my place this weekend cause us and a bunch of friends are going out to a club for a friends birthday. any tips on how to make a move without looking like an idiot and/or getting rejected?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how to make a move without getting rejected?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Do you fear looking like an idiot or being rejected?duke104 said:
BlackMack177
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just be straight up and bold with your intentions. but do it tactfully and not obnoxiously and most times girls will not try to bust your balls for trying
do you fear looking dumb or do you fear getting rejected?
because no matter what you do you're risking either one. why not just say fvck it and go for broke?
if more of us guys could do that (including me sometime) then we'd be a lot better off
I respect a person who takes a risk, and i'm sure girls do too. Girls are not bears so really our fear of them as men is unwarranted.
do you fear looking dumb or do you fear getting rejected?
because no matter what you do you're risking either one. why not just say fvck it and go for broke?
if more of us guys could do that (including me sometime) then we'd be a lot better off
I respect a person who takes a risk, and i'm sure girls do too. Girls are not bears so really our fear of them as men is unwarranted.
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Look dude, don't apologize for being a man. If she rejects you, TRY AGAIN. If she rejects you again, TRY AGAIN.
Don't make a big deal out of it. There is never any "awkwardness" for being a man.
Is the risk of rejection worth the reward?
And HOLY CRAP she's sleeping over. In the same bed? Dude, I will happily have her over my place instead. I won't be making threads like this, only a LR
Don't make a big deal out of it. There is never any "awkwardness" for being a man.
Is the risk of rejection worth the reward?
And HOLY CRAP she's sleeping over. In the same bed? Dude, I will happily have her over my place instead. I won't be making threads like this, only a LR
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Very true, if she rejects then just be cool and collective. Don't be pissed off and be a ****, don't be sad and be a pvssy. Just be your normal old self and have fun hanging out!bigneil said:
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Pretend to be cold and hug her.