"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to make a girl cheat? Course of action?

dudewut

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Backstory: there is this couple, short Asian dude with a 8/10 (Latina) girl. He is around 5'5" maybe 5'6" (average build, maybe a bit chubby) and she is like an inch or two taller than he is. He is on one of my classes and this girl would wait outside for him near the end of class for like 15 minutes.

HOWEVER last week during the finals I caught her staring at my friend on the same class (Asian too, 5'10" - 5'11" kinda built and looks good, no homo) and doing the hair preening thing. She was wearing a pony tail and took it off as soon as soon as she was in his line of sight. And her legs opened slightly. As she followed him with her eyes/head.

Dude she was staring mad HARD like O_O (and this is in the presence of her BF sitting right beside her)! Like she wants to f*cking eat him or something


I told him about this and he said that he did see her once or twice before and asked me if he should just wait for them to break up and/or what should his course of action be....

I HONESTLY DONT KNOW! What would YOU do DJs?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dudewut

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True, but then again its none of his business whether or not she has a BF, right? I might be playing the devil's advocate here cause thats what I told him lmao He is still not sure at what to do though, one of our buddies suggested he just keep looking good and if she approaches or w/e then its not on him
 

dudewut

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dereklovesugly said:
Well I meant trying to steal her and make her his girlfriend.
well based on what I saw, she already like him...sort of (IOIs are not 100%) and this is what I am wondering about for the longest time now, if she really loves her BF then any guy that comes around will NOT matter, amirite?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BlackMack177

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don't let him fall into the trap

if she's willing to cheat on her man with him then she'll do the same with him in the long run and will more than likely be unstable
 

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Plus I've found it's pretty rough getting a girl out of a LTR, even if she's bored with her boy. Not impossible but it's not worth the effort.
 

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Oh Lord....to simplify & cut out all the useless moral crap. You do not steal taken girls, you pump them for a bit & eject her from your life before she can do it to you.

If he wants a piece of that latina azz, let him game her as usual & be aggressive, if she really wants him she'll submit. If she rejects him....he can move on.
 

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Kirro said:
Oh Lord....to simplify & cut out all the useless moral crap. You do not steal taken girls, you pump them for a bit & eject her from your life before she can do it to you.

If he wants a piece of that latina azz, let him game her as usual & be aggressive, if she really wants him she'll submit. If she rejects him....he can move on.
Exactly
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackMack177 said:
if she's willing to cheat on her man with him then she'll do the same with him in the long run and will more than likely be unstable
This. Unless he can tap it and then walk away.
 

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GameTime76 said:
I'd say mind your own fvcking business and worry about YOU.
Good advice here, worry about your own game. If your mate is good enough he can take care of it.
 

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Lol it's not that I am concerned like that, it's just a question that he asked me and now I am asking you guys (and the credit shall be yours) and I've been urging him to make a sosuave account but he won't lol

I don't think he want to do anything now, he says it's too much work, lazy bastard lmao
 
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